Friendship Quiz

How it works

1. 1

   Start your test

   You'll get 12 questions about your friendship, from how you met to the story you'll still be telling years from now. No account needed.

2. 2

   Write what might have happened

   For each question, write two to five possible answers. One is the real memory; the rest are believable decoys.

3. 3

   Mark the real one

   Pick the answer you remember. Once you share the test, your answers are locked in.

4. 4

   Send your private link

   Add your name and send the link to the friend it's about. They see your choices, not which one you picked.

5. 5

   See how much you both remember

   When they've finished, you both see how many of the 12 memories they matched.

The 12 questions

Every friendship test uses these questions, in this order. They're all about moments you've shared, so the answers can only come from the two of you.

1. 1
   Relationship

   Where did we first meet?

2. 2
   Relationship

   What was the first thing we ever did together?

3. 3
   Lifestyle

   What’s the dumbest thing we’ve ever laughed about together?

4. 4
   Adventures & Travel

   What’s something we’ve done together that sounded like a good idea at the time?

5. 5
   Lifestyle

   What’s the most embarrassing thing we’ve experienced together?

6. 6
   Relationship

   What’s an inside joke between us that would make absolutely no sense to anyone else?

7. 7
   Relationship

   What’s something that happened between us that we still randomly bring up?

8. 8
   Adventures & Travel

   What’s a place, trip, or night out that instantly makes me think of you?

9. 9
   Relationship

   What’s the most “us” thing we’ve ever done?

10. 10
    Lifestyle

    What’s a phrase, song, place, or random thing that will always remind us of each other?

11. 11
    Relationship

    What’s a moment between us that I would happily relive?

12. 12
    Relationship

    What’s one story about us that we’ll probably still be telling years from now?

Writing answer choices for a memory

• Use details only you two know

  The name of the bar, what you were wearing, who said it first. Details make the real answer recognizable.

• Build decoys from your real history

  Other trips you've taken, other jokes you share. Wrong answers that almost happened are the hardest to rule out.

• Go with your version

  If the memory is fuzzy, write down the one you'd swear by. Finding out they remember it differently is half the fun.

• Keep it kind

  Embarrassing is great when you'll both laugh about it. Skip anything your friend wouldn't want written down.

When your memories don't match

Two people can live through the same night and come away with different stories. One of you remembers where you were; the other remembers what was said. A wrong guess here isn't a failed test. It's usually the start of a “wait, that's not how it happened” conversation, and those tend to be the best part.

What the score means

Your friend's result counts how many of the 12 memories they matched, then sums it up in one line. From the best result to the worst:

• You basically know our friendship by heart.
• Okay, you know our friendship pretty well.
• We might need to make more memories.
• Were you even there? 😂

Friendship Test or How Well Do You Know Me?

Both are guessing games for two friends. This friendship quiz is about your friendship: shared places, jokes, and moments. If you'd rather be quizzed on your favorite songs and your strongest opinions, try How Well Do You Know Me? instead.

Friendship trivia questions to ask in person

30 more questions about the two of you, for a road trip, a dinner, or the group chat. They aren't in the test, which always uses the 12 above: ask one, see if your answers match, then argue about who remembers it right.

• Our beginnings

  1. What was the first thing you thought when you met me?
  2. When did we realize we were actually friends?
  3. What was the first photo we ever took together?
  4. What was the first message one of us sent the other?
  5. Who made the first plan to hang out?
  6. What did we have in common right away?
  7. What did we disagree about when we first met?
  8. What was our first “regular” place to meet?
  9. What's the first gift we ever gave each other?
  10. When did we first stay up talking way too late?

• Our adventures

  11. What's the best trip we've ever taken together?
  12. What's the longest we've ever gone without talking?
  13. What's a concert, show, or event we went to together?
  14. What's the best meal we've ever shared?
  15. Which plan of ours went completely wrong?
  16. What's the latest we've ever stayed out together?
  17. What's a challenge or bet we made each other?
  18. Where did we get lost together?
  19. What's a game we always end up playing?
  20. Which holiday or birthday together stands out the most?

• Our details

  21. What's “our song”?
  22. What's our go-to snack or drink together?
  23. Who's usually late when we meet?
  24. Who's the planner, and who just shows up?
  25. What do we always end up talking about?
  26. Which movie or show did we watch together the most?
  27. What's a nickname we have for each other?
  28. Who gives the better advice?
  29. What's something we've promised to do together one day?
  30. What would we be famous for as a duo?

Want a score? Make the 12-question friendship test and send the link.

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