How to use these date night questions
Pick a mood, or keep it on All
Choose flirty, funny, romantic, random, deep, or hypothetical, depending on the night.
Take turns with Next
Read the question out loud and both answer it. When you're ready, hit Next or Shuffle for another.
Search for a topic
Looking for something specific? Search the deck for a word like “love” or “first”.
Save the good ones
Tap the heart to keep a question for another night. Favorites stay in this browser.
The six moods
Every one of the 60 questions is tagged with at least one mood, and some with more than one. Filter by the kind of evening you're having.
Flirty · 11 questions
For when you want a little spark. Good early in the evening, or early in the relationship.
Funny · 17 questions
Low stakes, lots of laughing. A good way to start if you're both tired.
Romantic · 24 questions
About what makes each of you feel loved, and the moments you'd like more of.
Random · 23 questions
Questions you'd never think to ask. Good for breaking a routine.
Deep · 18 questions
For later in the evening, when you've got time to actually talk something through.
Hypothetical · 21 questions
What-ifs and would-you-rathers. Easy to answer, often surprisingly revealing.
Setting up the evening
Start light
Open with something funny or random. The deeper questions land better once you're both relaxed.
Phones down, except for this one
Keep one phone out for the deck and put the rest away. It's easier to listen when nothing's buzzing.
Follow the tangents
If one question turns into twenty minutes of stories, that's a good night. There's no list to finish.
Save heavy topics for another time
Date night is for connecting, not for sorting out disagreements. Note anything big and come back to it.
Long-distance date nights
The deck works in any browser, so you can both open this page and talk it through on a call. One of you picks the question, you both answer out loud. If you'd rather answer on your own first and compare, try the getting to know each other questions, which you each answer separately before seeing both sets of answers.
Questions people ask
60, across six moods: flirty, funny, romantic, random, deep, and hypothetical. Some questions fit more than one mood.
No. Just open the page and start. There's nothing to sign up for, and it's free.
In this browser on this device. They're not sent anywhere, so they won't show up on another phone or computer.
Yes, especially the funny, random, and hypothetical ones. Keep the deep questions for when you know each other a bit better.
Of course. Long-term couples often get the most out of the romantic and deep moods, because the answers have changed since you last asked.